I have been here posting and commenting for a while. I comment on everyone and spend over an hour or 2 a day leaving comments and giving stars but it seems no-one is giving back like they receive. Is this common here or am I just terrible?

I try to do as many ratings and postings as I can because I love this site.

I don't have time to spend 1 or 2 hours on here. I just check my ratings a couple times a week and post a pic when I have an exceptionally fashionable day. I hardly spend any time leaving comments or ratings, so I don't really expect people to leave them for me. Also, I usually only rate people when I think they deserve a 4 or a 5. I feel mean giving out anything lower. Women should build each other's self-esteem, not join the forces that try to warp women's self-concepts every day.
But basically, I'm just too busy. Maybe I'd be more active on here if I was bored, but I'm one of those perpetually busy people.

One to two hours? Isn't that a little excessive?

Can someone explain how this works? I just joined Style Spotter. Thought it would fun to see how others put together outfits and look at the different styles women have. I've posted a few comments on some of the pics but am not sure how the whole star rating thing works. I'm not the most computer saavy person but don't want to spend hours trying to figure this out.....Plus, I need to figure out how to put a pic on of myself :)

Hi happygirl-welcome-If you go to the very bottom of this page, there is a link that says "HOW IT WORKS" - if you click that-it will give you all the information you need and answers to all your questions-HAVE FUN!

Thanks for the info! Your pic in the Urban Elegance contest looked fabulous by the way! :)